"Girl Or Boy" lyrics

Is that a girl or is that a boy
Do they play with dolls
Or do they play with toys
I have to know the pink or blue
The pink or blue now
How will people think of you
If they don't know how

Girl or boy
Girl or boy

Is that a lady or is that a man
Times have changed
And lines are blurred
And I don't understand
I have to get a grip of this
It's blowing my mind
I'm not gay or lesbian
But God they look fine

Girl or boy
Girl or boy

Oh, but life is not
A pink or blue painting
Hanging over someone's crib
While they're waiting
To grow to be
One or the other
Living to please and appease
Their mother
And I know we can grow to see
That everybody is unique
And I know they told us
When we were kids but
We forget it cause
They always said
Don't be a pussy
To the boy who cried
And they always said
To the girl who fought
That's not very lady like
Well we gotta know
Who decides it?
Do you or do I?...
Who decides it?
Do you or I?

Girl or boy
Girl or boy
Girl or boy
Girl or boy