"Shrug" lyrics

This isn't how I wanna breathe
I didn't know that I could care that much
I really wish that I could see
A tiny hand shouldn't take that much

I'm missing out on all the fun
When all I care about is finding someone
Gotta get up and shrug it off (Why don't you just shrug it off?)
Talk it out so I can understand

Good or bad, it's hard to say
Paint my walls a shade of grey
Playing safe

Is it all about the scene
Or something in between?
Invited but I'll never show
Stayed at home and played too much Wilco

Good or bad, it's hard to say
I look around at all the paint
Playing safe
Feels like now it's all the same
I figured out I don't like grey
Playing safe
Feels so great

Why don't you get up and shrug it off?