"Find Out" lyrics

Shut your mouth, you hardly know me
If you think I'm talking 'bout you, I am
So send me a dozen red flags in a bouquet
Who is deceiving who?

I mean who really wants to be changing if you get shamed for it first?
And I love you regardless of everything, but it still hurts
Ah, this must be the find out part of fuck around
And we fucked around but I still love you, you

To be clear, I'm so fucking sorry
I tried and I tried to repair
And I learned you can't heal with somebody who is hurt
While they're still hurting, these things take time
I'm ashamed at the lies, I would gaslight and deny
All the harm that I caused came from fear of rejection
But you stayed and behaved in the same harmful ways
I can only take on what is mine

I mean who really wants to be changing if you get shamed for it first?
And I love you regardless of everything, but it still hurts
Ah, this must be the find out part of fuck around
And we fucked around but I still love you, you