"Emotionally Unavailable" lyrics
I'm a good girl gone bad
And I'm gone forever
Yeah
I'm a beast, yeah I'm a dog
You mess with me I'll mess you up
You thought you could beat me down
But you were wrong
Cause I'm a beast, yeah I'm a dog
I still remember what you forgot
I finally stopped caring
About the reputation of my work
Everything I said was the truth
And I meant every word
I'm just a girl, a good girl gone bad
And I'm gone forever ever, ever, ever
I've still got the worst intentions, no apologies
I do what I want and I do it with ease
Bad intentions, velvet lies I warned you once
I won't warn you twice
I'm prepared to lose it all
Every chain you laid on me, are you mad I cut through it?
I meant what I said
I'm taking control
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable, unavailable
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Somebody answer
She's got anxious attachment bad
Still waiting on the love she never had
From a father who was never there
Now she's picking men who just don't care
Hyper-vigilant, can't let nobody in
We see you baby
Codependent, doing it again
I met a man, he seemed so fine
Love bombed me till I lost my mind
Showed up big then disappeared
Classic avoidant, just as I feared
I said baby what's your attachment style
He said "his what?"
Lord have mercy
I just want someone who did the work
Went to therapy and healed the hurt
But everybody walking round here triggered
With their unhealed inner child
It's real, thats wild right?
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Daddy issues, mommy issues
Trauma responses on the table on the table
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Lord Can somebody please do their shadow work
Before they come and do me dirty
Love yourself before you love me honey love yourself
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Somebody pray
And I confess
I built these walls
To keep them out
But kept myself locked in
Lord I got my own work to do
My own work
My own trauma to get through
Get through it
Dissociating when it gets too real
Lord Gaslit so many times I forgot what I feel
Forgot what you feel
But I'm doing the work, doing the work
Showing up every day
Healing is not linear honey, not linear
But I'm on my way, on my way
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Daddy issues, mommy issues
Trauma responses on the table
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
On the table
Lord can somebody please do their shadow work
Before they come and do me dirty
Love yourself before you love me honey, love yourself
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Somebody pray
Do your work
Heal your heart
Just heal your heart
Love yourself first
Love yourself
Before you tear
Somebody else apart
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable, unavailable
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Somebody answer...
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
And I'm gone forever
Yeah
I'm a beast, yeah I'm a dog
You mess with me I'll mess you up
You thought you could beat me down
But you were wrong
Cause I'm a beast, yeah I'm a dog
I still remember what you forgot
I finally stopped caring
About the reputation of my work
Everything I said was the truth
And I meant every word
I'm just a girl, a good girl gone bad
And I'm gone forever ever, ever, ever
I've still got the worst intentions, no apologies
I do what I want and I do it with ease
Bad intentions, velvet lies I warned you once
I won't warn you twice
I'm prepared to lose it all
Every chain you laid on me, are you mad I cut through it?
I meant what I said
I'm taking control
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable, unavailable
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Somebody answer
She's got anxious attachment bad
Still waiting on the love she never had
From a father who was never there
Now she's picking men who just don't care
Hyper-vigilant, can't let nobody in
We see you baby
Codependent, doing it again
I met a man, he seemed so fine
Love bombed me till I lost my mind
Showed up big then disappeared
Classic avoidant, just as I feared
I said baby what's your attachment style
He said "his what?"
Lord have mercy
I just want someone who did the work
Went to therapy and healed the hurt
But everybody walking round here triggered
With their unhealed inner child
It's real, thats wild right?
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Daddy issues, mommy issues
Trauma responses on the table on the table
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Lord Can somebody please do their shadow work
Before they come and do me dirty
Love yourself before you love me honey love yourself
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Somebody pray
And I confess
I built these walls
To keep them out
But kept myself locked in
Lord I got my own work to do
My own work
My own trauma to get through
Get through it
Dissociating when it gets too real
Lord Gaslit so many times I forgot what I feel
Forgot what you feel
But I'm doing the work, doing the work
Showing up every day
Healing is not linear honey, not linear
But I'm on my way, on my way
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Daddy issues, mommy issues
Trauma responses on the table
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
On the table
Lord can somebody please do their shadow work
Before they come and do me dirty
Love yourself before you love me honey, love yourself
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Somebody pray
Do your work
Heal your heart
Just heal your heart
Love yourself first
Love yourself
Before you tear
Somebody else apart
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable, unavailable
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
Somebody answer...
Why is everyone emotionally unavailable
